Suit Up for Summer with Tips from Bourbon & Birch's Ben Headley

"Every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man" - The bearded philosophers of ZZ Top knew it in 1983 and it's even more true today.

It's often said that a well tailored suit is to women what lingerie is to men. Then why is it that we men too often settle for a no iron dress shirt tucked into dockers when attending a wedding? Part of me believes it's a fear of the unknown. We are manly men who don't read instructions. We don't ask for directions. We never admit what we don't know - instead choosing to ignore it until it goes away. And one of the things many of us don't know is how to live well dressed.

I like to think that I do alright on my own and have become known for my ability to rock a bow tie like nobody's business, so I didn't feel too far out of my league when I met with Ben Headley of Bourbon & Birch (twitter: @bourbonandbirch, Instagram: @bourbonandbirch) to discuss men's fashion, and, more specifically, suits.

Ben is about as sharply a dressed of a man as I have met. He looks like he shares a tailor with James Bond, only Ben moves well beyond the typical Bond tuxedo look. Ben is the Founder and Creative Director of Bourbon & Birch, a company specializing in custom men's suits that also offers custom shirts, shoes and accessories; the perfect man to offer advice to the Real Man Travels readers on how to elevate their style this summer. With our expert ready we took to the internet to find out just what you've always wanted to know about buying a suit,

Ben Headley, founder of Bourbon & Birch

Real Man Travels: How did you get into men’s fashion?

Ben: Thanks to my father, I was exposed to how a man should dress from a young age, as he was from his father. My grandfather, even my great-grandfather were well known for their dapper sense of style. This influence, coupled with watching my mother design and craft her own garments, gave me a keen interest in developing my own style. So much so that even in high school I turned my locker into a storefront, selling some of my own designs.

Real Man Travels: When striking out on your own, how did you come to choose custom suits?


Ben: I believe a suit transforms a man into the best version of himself. No other article of clothing can send the same message that a suit can. Wearing suits weekly from a young age and being on a budget, I found myself frustrated, unable to find a suit that fit me or was designed the way that I wanted. Being a perfectionist, with every purchase, there was a compromise. I wanted to eliminate that problem.

Logo game, on point

Real Man Travels: How did you choose the name Bourbon & Birch?

Ben: Choosing the name actually took longer than I anticipated. I really wanted my brand to identify and encapsulate the qualities that personify a gentleman. Class, elegance and strength of character. I believe the name does a good job at that.

Real Man Travels: What is the best way to pack a suit when travelling?

Ben: If you’re looking to stay away from creases, the best way would be a garment bag. At Bourbon & Birch, we provide one with every suit. If you must stash it in your luggage, the best methods are either the ‘tuck & fold’ or ‘tuck & roll’ methods. Both will be explained in detail in an upcoming blog post on bourbonandbirch.com.

Real Man Travels: What colours are in style for this summer? What colours have passed there prime?

Ben: This season there is a move toward the cooler and softer side of the colour spectrum. Think soft, natural hues and subtle warm tones. Truthfully though, colours have no expiry date, they can look amazing on one person yet do nothing for another. When creating a wardrobe for my clients, I tend to focus not on what colours are trendy at the moment but more with their best interest in mind. The colours that really compliment their skin tone, features and personality. Building garments on that principle make for much longer lasting pieces.

Just a fraction of the colours offered by Bourbon and Birch

Real Man Travels: Have double breasted suits gone out of style?

Ben: No, their back with a vengeance and I don’t see them leaving anytime soon.

Double Breasted done right!

Real Man Travels: A lot of guys have put on some winter weight. What should a heavier set fella know when choosing a suit?

Ben: Lose the idea that a bigger suit conceals. Many men opt for a larger, loose fitting suit thinking that it hides their body. Truth is, it not only creates a sloppy image but also a wider and shorter one. By embracing the natural structure of your body with a fitted tailored look, you’ll notice the immediate slimming effect it has. Not to mention a sharper look.

Don't hide behind a baggy suit fellas! 

Real Man Travels: What is a ticket pocket, and why are they seeing a comeback?

Ben: A ticket pocket is located right above the right hip pocket on a jacket. It’s usually about half the size of the pocket below it. Originating in Britain, ticket pockets are not just something of a current trend, they are a classic feature that has been around for ages. Even though they are not a necessity anymore, they add a nostalgic sense of British style and can be visually appealing especially for a taller or slimmer gentleman.

Real Man Travels: How long should a jacket's sleeves be when wearing cuff links?

Ben: About half an inch shorter than the sleeves of the shirt under it.

The proper length sleeves can make all the difference

Real Man Travels: How can I tell if I'm choosing a good quality suit?

Ben: The key things to examine are the quality of the material, the way it was constructed and how the suit fits you.

Real Man Travels: What exactly makes a suit a "staple" piece of your closet?

Ben: A good wardrobe is built on the foundation of a few staples. To me, a staple is defined by its versatility and function. Something that can unnoticeably be worn often, have a measure of durability and be dressed up or down to suit the occasion.

Real Man Travels: What is the fashion faux pas that makes you cringe the most/is committed the most?

Ben: Oversized suits.

Real Man Travels: Any tips for suit shopping "off the rack"?

Ben: One statement from Benjamin Franklin always resonates with me: “The bitterness of poor quality remains long after the sweetness of low price is forgotten.” The only way to be fully satisfied is to go custom. If you must go off the rack, keep in mind that for a suit jacket to fit well, it all starts with the shoulders.

There you have it - tips from a man with style to spare. There will be no excuse for the short sleeve plaid shirt and khaki pant look this summer fellas. Time to man up!


Cheers!

Sam @samrealman

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Date Night in Athens

Taking advantage of the afternoon sun we hopped out of the taxi. Excitement filled the air for our date night in Athens. As we made our way up the mountain side, we paused frequently to drink in the magnificent views of the city below. We trekked passed the ruins of ancient Greece stopping only to attempt the daunting "couple selfie"  before we made the summit of Acropolis Hill.

"The Acropolis of Athens and its monuments are universal symbols of the classical spirit and civilization and form the greatest architectural and artistic complex bequeathed by Greek Antiquity to the world. In the second half of the fifth century bc, Athens, following the victory against the Persians and the establishment of democracy, took a leading position amongst the other city-states of the ancient world. In the age that followed, as thought and art flourished, an exceptional group of artists put into effect the ambitious plans of Athenian statesman Pericles and, under the inspired guidance of the sculptor Pheidias, transformed the rocky hill into a unique monument of thought and the arts. The most important monuments were built during that time: the Parthenon, built by Ictinus, the Erechtheon, the Propylaea, the monumental entrance to the Acropolis, designed by Mnesicles and the small temple Athena Nike." - UNESCO World Heritage Centre

The history of it all may not amaze her but the views... those will make it a date to remember. A tip: check out the admission times for Acropolis you don't want to miss on the final entry time. You can also hire a certified guide to take you through if you want. And be sure to pray to Zeus for good weather.

Ya... this view

Pandrousso street market

Ice cream at the ice scream shop!

As it started to get dark we made our way to Monastiraki Square near the Plaka District; a very busy part of Athens. It was here that we found the Pandrousso Street Market which was lit up beautifully. The many shops provided the chance to find the perfect souvenir and the aroma of Greek fare wafted from the many restaurants. We stopped for some ice cream along the way.

Rewarded for my always entertaining dance moves

A traditional Greek feast at a typical taverna in the renowned Plaka district is the perfect way to finish your night out in Athens. I'm talkin' mouth watering lamb and rice with loads of feta and olives - all topped off with dancing (well, some may call it that). The Unique Greek Zorba Dance is the perfect recipe for fun. The dance cast interacts with the audience and pulls them onto the stage to dance along in the show. You and your date will never forget the experience, I'm sure of it. Check out the fun the fun we had in the video below.

Another tip: Planning a date in a city like Athens can be a little overwhelming with all the different things in the countless different neighborhoods. Thankfully there are tour companies like Key Tours who have it all figured out for you

Of course, if the date is going well, it dosent have to stop there. Head over to the local bar Sinatra or Einstein and dance some more. If you have any other places that you would recommend in Athens feel free to let us know in the comments section.

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This Week in Beer - Ale-Induced Anecdotals Part Four

Every now and again RealManTravels.com pauses to bring you the latest from the world of beer. For beer is not boring, nor idle; indeed, beer is dynamic, ever-changing, free (in a non-monetary, hippy kinda-way! So without further adieu, here are the latest and greatest beer stories the internet has to offer.

Have Sewage, Will Beer

Kinda gross, in principle. The state of Oregon is running a competition on who can make treated sewage water into the best beer. The contest is actually a fun way to promote the state's filtered water, which they claim is as clean as clean can be.

Crappy Beer? Teabag it!

Not your Queen mum's teabag. A student in Maryland has created tea bags that make any run-of-the-mill beer as delicious as their higher-caliber craft cousins. Currently a campaign on Kickstarter, the sachets contain hops, fruit peels and natural ingredients that improve beer's flavour and aroma.

Beer Pong Meets Tech

In another Kickstarter campaign, a creative Saskatoon man created a crazy beer pong table that incorporates LED lights, a touch screen score keeper and a ball washer. Who knew college could actually lead to success!

Space Yeast!

Just for giggles, a beer company in Oregon (all these stories from Oregon, go Beaver State go)  sent yeast into space. Fortunately, it survived, and now they've brewed beer with it. Good for them!

A Bottle Opener, in Your Mouth

In a hilarious campaign from Argentinian beer brand Salta, rugby players who lost teeth on the field were offered implanted beer openers to replaced their cast away cuspids. Check out the video:

And finally, check out these guys playing Johnny Cash's greatest hits on beer bottles!

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